Do you feel mildly resentful about dinner?

Have you noticed that you'd rather just concede and do whatever the other person wants than discuss the options?

Do you remember the last time you found a really new exciting place for dinner, or have you become complacent and just go with the same old standby options?

Hi, I’m Kari

Good boundaries make great relationships, and people in great relationships practice compromise. In this course, I'll teach you how dysfunctional compromise is keeping you stuck and help you build the muscles you need to approach and achieve compromise in any circumstance, with anyone.

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Learn everything you need to know to compromise in under an hour

Walk thorough this tool in under an hour and change the way you approach compromise. Bonus interviews included if you'd like to watch me walk students through this process.


Post Pandemic Better Boundaries Boot Camp

Four live weekly classes to apply the tools from Better Boundaries

Four 90 minute live, interactive, web-based courses to support you in creating better boundaries as the world shifts into a post-pandemic mode.

In addition to the live classes, purchasers will receive the "compromise" self-paced course and the electronic reader's guide for Better Boundaries.

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Four dysfunctional methods of compromise

Learn to spot dysfunctional attempts to compromise and stop doing them!

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Always start here - with what you really, really want

And learn how to decide when you have "no idea" what you want.

And know where to stop

And how to express what doesn't work for you without recounting an embarrassingly long list